My cat attacked me for first time in 10 months! Why is that? She is a very calm cat, 10 months old. She never pawed at me before tonight, even when I cut her nails or hug her tight (though she always meows when I do those things). She's never showed aggression toward me before.

Tonight, I hugged her; she was sleepy, didn't make a sound, and seemed ok, but two seconds later seemingly out of nowhere she made a scary face and noise and attacked my face. I was very scared and screamed; she ran away immediately, but continued staring at me.

I only can guess that, because she was sleepy and I had a fluffy hoody on, maybe she didn’t recognize me for few seconds, but I don't know. She is my first cat. Can you please let me know more about why she did this?

  • Welcome to Pet Exchange. Is your cat back to its normal calm self now? Or is she still agitated?
    – SerenaT
    Commented Dec 18, 2020 at 7:36

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Check the cat for illness or injuries.

Suddenly and uncharacteristically lashing out could be a sign of pain. Even cats that are normally very tolerant can be very aggressive when it feels you are hurting it. For instance, we had a similar incident with one of my cats when someone tried to adjust its collar. It turned out the cat had gained enough weight since the collar had been put on that it had started rubbing the cat and made its skin sore, and adjusting the collar rubbed the sore area. That was enough for the cat to swipe pretty viciously.

However, pain might not be caused by a visually obvious ailment. So also keep an eye on it to see if you notice any other signs, such as changes in how much it's eating, or how much it's using the litterbox, or any other habits. Similarly, keep note of exactly how you were handling the cat when this happened. You might be able to guess which area exactly might hurt, if some place does hurt. Or if it happens again, then you might be able to notice a pattern and figure out if it's a specific spot that hurts.

Obviously if you do suspect it's pain, then you should arrange a vet visit.

If any sort of medical problem is ruled out, I would guess that either the cat was startled, or you accidentally handled it in a way that it didn't like. Even cats that are normally pretty well socialized can be very jumpy or unexpectedly sensitive. Sometimes they will go from being content to irritated with not much obvious warning. Or sometimes the warning signs are really subtle. The tail might start twitching a bit, the cat becomes more alert, the ears swivel back ever so slightly, and the cat becomes a bit tense.

It is even possible that as you say, the cat didn't recognize you when wearing the hoodie, or that was surprised by the change of appearance. Cats do use vision to identify their owners to some extent, so sudden unexpected changes in their owner's appearance does frighten them sometimes.

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