One of our cats is extremely human focused. He sleeps with us every single night. He has a pillow between the one of my wife and mine. He also has a bit of an unfortunate quirk of stretching when changing sleeping positions. This includes stretching his front paws including claws. He will also do a little bit of kneading on the surface his paws touch. He does this no matter what surface they touch. I've already gotten used to being woken up every now and then from the feeling of a cats paw and claw working my skin. However recently I have had a few instances where I have woken up at night realizing something is kneading my eye lid. This is not done on purpose by the cat, but its very unsettling. Luckily I was already used to it from other parts of my face and was able to just wait until it was over even though I was barely awake at that time and therefore did not panic and jolt my face away potentially causing harm to my eyes.

The problem pretty much boils down to the fact that the cat has an unfortunate habit of stretching his whole body every now and then more or less asleep and the fact that even if I move his pillow more towards the side of my wife he will literally sleep an inch or less from my face.

I know that many people have their cats sleep close to them at night and I am certain other cats have similar "stretching behaviors". Does anyone have any tips how I can both allow my cat to sleep on the bed with us (he is completely devastated in the morning if we close the door or move his pillow and I might be willing to sacrifice an eye to allow him to sleep there) without having to wake up with a claw lodged into my eye lid?

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I would try to replace his pillow with a walled cat bed. You can make the swap less upsetting to your cat by removing the pillow's pillow case and putting that in the cat bed. If the pillow does not have a pillow case, then you might need a two step process of first putting a pillow case on his pillow, and letting the cat sleep on that a couple days to get his smell on the pillow case, and then putting that in the new cat bed. Hopefully with the cat surrounded by soft walls, he will claw those and not you at night.

  • Ah what a good idea. I was thinking about building a wall and what not instead of simply buying one of the cat beds that already has a wall. In German there is a saying that you cant see the forest anymore among all the trees :) Commented Dec 5, 2020 at 17:52
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    @YanickSalzmann I was going to suggest the same thing. You could also train the cat to sleep away from your faces by moving the pillow lower and lower (thus away from your faces) each night. My cat also sleeps on a pillow next to me so I understand!
    – Gwendolyn
    Commented Dec 6, 2020 at 5:02

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