I don't neuter my cats. There were 6 of them: dad, mom, 4 kittens, 3 tomcat kittens and 1 tammy kitten. I neutered the tammy one.
The mom gone one day when I was about to abort her babies, the dad followed.
One of the kittens seems to be the strongest and my house is like "his area". At first, the tomcats were playing with each other like brothers should do, then, the strongest kitten fought dad and fought his brothers.
One day, daddy was gone too. I have no idea why. Then, another kitten (now one year old) was gone too. There were 2 tomcat kittens (now cats I suppose), and 1 tammy kitten.
The tammy cat stays in the house most of the time and the only one that can climb windows to get in and get out of my house. I have built a bridge, then one day the weaker cat was missing for days. Sometimes it comes back and grabs some food and then is gone again. I have no idea why does it happen.
One day it came for food, I caught him, gave him his favorite wet food and put him in my room like the way we used to. He just wants to get out.
He is like avoiding me. I followed him quite far and he just keeps avoiding me. And then I tried to lock him out in my house again, but he somehow managed to escape.
Then he's gone again. Why?
I know the weaker tomcat loses fights against his own brother. But the other cats are around my area and do just fine. They get along just fine. It's as if the weaker tomcat had another territory and just came back for food
Why is my tomcat leaving me?