We got a puppy 2 days ago. We decided to crate train her and she seems to have taken to the crate well. She goes in there for all her food and water and will sleep in it during the day with the door open. We can get her to stay in there with the door closed without a problem and she'll lie down and sleep.
However, if one of us isn't very close to the crate she goes ballistic. Even if you're just 10 feet away and completely visible, she starts howling, crying, and trying to dig out of her crate. We've tried everything from really wearing her out to giving her a chew stick she really likes before we move away from her.
All the advice I've found says things we've already done or are doing. She's fine with the crate, we don't reward the howling, we make sure she's tired, etc. A lot of advice says to go away for a very brief period, not long enough for them to start howling and then slowly increase how long you stay away. But that's impossible because you can't even get out of sight before she sets off.
It's been a real struggle. I know puppies are hard and it's all about patience, but in this case there is like 0 progress and all the advice feels impossible or already done. One of us has slept on the couch next to her crate each night and we have to take turns using the bathroom if we want to avoid a massive heachache. I've taken work from home for this week but it's a constant torture because I'm stuck in one spot until my bf gets back and can give me a break.
Any advice is appreciated. I want to love this puppy but she's making it very difficult right now.