2 years ago a nursing Mama cat appeared on my porch digging through garbage for a meal. I tried to pet her, but she ran away immediately and I did not see her for several days. Gradually she started coming back once I set food out. She comes when we call her and is very friendly with us, but will run when she sees anyone else.
We have 3 indoor cats who we've had since they were kittens and they are not fond of our outdoor kitty. Our neutered alpha male will start peeing on EVERYTHING if we were to let her in. We need to move far away and I'm worried about trying to take her with us, I would be terribly guilt stricken if we had to leave her here. We feed her twice a day and I don't know that she hunts much anymore.
There are other strays in the area that neighbors take care of, so we can't really leave her in the care of anyone else. She is NOT part of a colony of feral cats. I just want to do what is best for her without harming our 3 indoor kitties. Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated!!