thereThere is something you can do,play: play with your cat before bedtime, and after the play, feed your cat,this. This will make your cat sleepy and easier to get to bed with you.
thisThis is about using your catscat's natural behaviour,hunting(play)eating(food)resting(sleep),this hunting / play / eating / food / resting/ sleep. This is what cats normalynormally do in nature.